Too bad about your one friend who is too young to join the con. That really sucks. I completely understand your hesitation to move to Utah, but I can assure that not all Utahns are homophobic. Some of us actually prefer the company of gays to that of the mo-mos. People like me!

Then there are the people like my family who, when you say, "I have to find all my gay friends in books these days" look at you like you just sprouted a second head, even though they know/love your best friend who is gay and like a second son to them. Oh, well. What can you do? I look forward to hearing from more yaoi fans in Utah...if any more exist. And I wish you the best of luck in your future move ^_^